1. Note It

As soon as I start worrying that something needs to be done, I write it down on a Post-It note. And put the note in box-file on my desk. Then I try and forget about it and get on with what I should be doing – the task in hand. I like to clear the duty or worry from my mind so that I can concentrate on thoroughly enjoy what I’m doing. After all, people who enjoy what they are doing invariably do it well.

2. Sort It

Then when I’m feeling calm and organized I go through and empty each note from the box-file. Firstly, throwing out everything that is irrational or out-of-date. Worry is the interest you pay for something that may never happen. It’s great when some things just go away of their own accord or someone else does the job.

3. List It

Then from the remaining active Post-It notes, I write down a list of what needs to be done in order of priority. This becomes my To-Do list that prompts me into real action. My To-Do list is also like body armor, in that, I any anxious person starts nagging me then I can point to the item and say, ‘Don’t panic Captain Mainwaring, it is fine because I put that on my list’.

4. Do It

Tackling the top priority item is bound to carry more risk. It’s the top priority so, by definition, there is more at stake. More risk, but also more reward then you get it cleared off. This method helps clear my mind of distractions, avoid being overloaded, and stay focused on the things that matter.

That works great for tackling the important items. Here’s a complementary method which is fabulous for reducing the total amount of things you have to do. It’s called ‘The Two Minute Rule’

Learn The Two Minute Rule

If something can be done in two minutes then just do it. Don’t write it down as a task, don’t postpone it, do not procrastinate, just do it. After all it’s only two minutes of your life. Even it’s boring. Even if it’s dull. Even if it’s a pain. It’s only two minutes. This is miraculously effective in reducing the pile of things need to be done but haven’t. The result of a smaller total number of task is less intimidating. Also, you can report (or brag) about your successes to your partner and family. By clearing a small task you create a sense of momentum to take on something bigger.

Hopefully these simple methods of Note It, Sort It, List It, Do It and The Two Minute Rule will help to smooth over the organizing part of the wedding so you can concentrate on the emotional thrill of such a special and eventful time in your life.

Wearing a waistcoat to a special event ceremonies, annual award evenings, Ascot, proms, dinner parties shows that you are making the effort to respect the occasion. How efficient – in just the few seconds to put on a waistcoat – is all that it takes. When a guy books a cruise it’s better if he some stylish waistcoats for the evening meals. If you are invited on the Captain’s table then wearing a smart waistcoat will look good on the photos.

Waistcoats for Business

Nothing is better than smart waistcoat for fitting for important business meetings. As soon as you put on your waistcoat it is like a suit of armour and you are ready to battle the slings and arrows of the business world. Walk into a meeting in a waistcoat and I defy you not to feel more confident. And why not, because you if you look the part you can act the part with professionalism and gravitas.

Be Different

Why dress the same as everybody else? The truth is your not the same as everyone else. In times past it was the norm for male fashion to have a more tailored look. But modern mores have conventionalized the mundane mass-produced over-casual. Open a typical guy’s wardrobe and the styling is bland. It’s not necessarily his fault: the dull offerings of menswear shops gives a restricted choice.

Wedding Waistcoats

Getting married in a waistcoat is a must. And not just the groom but also the best man and ushers. Waistcoats for the men make them look a complete unit on the photos. Often the groom gets a waistcoats that is a variation in colour to what the others are wearing so the he stands out visually.

Change the mood

On the evening, after a hard day’s work, wearing a casual waistcoat helps change the mood. Casual styles like denim waistcoats. Or what about taking leaf out of Italian style and wearing a waistcoat on top of a t-shirts with jeans? With a waistcoat you have more options to think up unconventional combinations. You can recycle a formal waistcoat into a casual everyday style to create a different urban cool look that gets attention in the right way. A different waistcoat to reflect a different mood. There’s a group on Facebook promoting Waistcoat Wednesdays where they wear waistcoats on a Wednesday. Why not, as it helps break the week up.

The X factor

Trendy bands love wearing waistcoats. Once you start noticing musician wearing waistcoats you will be amazing just how many do. Notice how often the performers on X-factor are styled in waistcoats. Stage performance of all kinds like wearing waistcoats: public speakers, magicians, toastmasters, ballroom dancers. Maybe the extra layer is a comforting psychological barrier that makes the extrovert feel safe?

Flexibility

Picture the scenario, you go to a function where it’s bitterly cold outside, but they have the heating up too much. Wearing a waistcoat will keep you warm when outside, then when you get too warm inside you can unbutton. If you get too hot you can take it off if you want to hit the dancefloor and show off your shapes and steps. Then when you need to go out again your waistcoat keeps you warm while others freeze. Waistcoat-less you don’t have the same options.

Tradition

The royals wear waistcoats, and not just the older members of the Royal Family. For instance, Prince William is a big fan of waistcoats. The history of the waistcoat tells that for over the past four centuries men of importance and status have worn waistcoats. Donning a waistcoat can invoke the thrill of a bygone era when men’s style seem to matter more. The retro gentlemen in The Chap magazine value the aesthetic manliness of the past. A waistcoat is vital part of such an ensemble.

Keep warm

Waistcoat give you practical warmth. Especially in winter, especially wearing wool waistcoats. It true that as we age we feel the cold more. Keeping the chest area warm is important to protect against winter cold. By maintaining your core body temperature you are more able to fight off infections. The waistcoats is a favoured garment for people in country pursuits and even ageing punk rockers.

Colour

Most men’s suits are in sombre colours. In past centuries men’s clothing was more ornate and as elaborate as a peacock. But by the twentieth century, men of status wanted to project their business-like credentials and that was reflected in men wearing uniformly plain dark suits. The trend for dull colours for suits continues right up to the present day. So given that you have invested in a sensible mature man’s suit then how to you add individuality and colour? The waistcoat is one solution. You can wear a suit that a cloned bank manager might wear but if you put a brightly colour waistcoat underneath then viola – you are an individual again.

Conclusion

Wearing a waistcoat can be many things: fun, fashionable,individualistic, practical, traditional and stylish.